as usual, this conversation happened when i was in the midst of something..

her: tell you ah.. WE won't be giving you anything for your ROM hor.. because its just a ROM. its not the actual day, so WE won't be giving you anything..

me: huh?! what talking you?? (i was like, out of the blue you talking about this? what's all this??)

her: no lah.. i'm just telling you in advance that WE will not be giving you anything for your ROM. but of course, WE will be there to be your audience to see your ROM ceremony, to be happy for you. WE will only be giving you things on your actual day.

me: huh??? anything la! YOU want to give, give lor.. don't want to give then don't give lor..

her: no lah.. i'm just saying lah.. let you understand first. because this is a ROM only.

she kept repeating lor... zzz... the only way to let her stop, is to keep quiet and acknowledge that, "yes, it is only a ROM. there is not a need to give your daughter anything. actual day is more important." but im not sure if it's 'WE' or just 'her'...

i don't really know how to express my feelings. i'm not sure am i angry, am i sad, am i frustrated, am i??? *shrug*

to add on: she said all those things when my father wasn't around. yeah.. she always does that when my father is not around.. *shrug*

11/30/2008 11:08:00 PM