it just happened, again.

she: i tell u ah.. if you don't want this bag, DO NOT give it to other people (holding on to my burberry bag)
me: (trying to sound patient and normal) i will not give it to other people
she: no.. what i meant was if you DON'T WANT, ask me first. DO NOT give to other people.
me: (still TRYING very hard not to raise my voice) i WILL NOT give this bag away, and i WILL NOT don't want this bag.
she: (still TRYING very hard to explain why don't give people) i know i know. i'm just saying IF ONE DAY, you don't want it, ask me. i want.
me: (repeats again) i told you already. I WILL NOT DON'T WANT THIS BAG.
she: *stares at me*
me: (raised voice) you know how much is this bag or not?! give people? i won't lor.

WHY must i reply in this manner then she will shut up???

why i say it happens again? because... MANY MONTHS AGO...

she: i tell u ah... don't you ever dare give this bag away i tell u (holding on to my LV Speedy)
me: huh?! what talking you?!
she: i say this bag ah (holding my LV Speedy high in the air) i want this bag hor.. don't ever give to people. if you don't want, i want.
me: you know what you are talking about or not?! that is my birthday present. what give people?
she: present, so? you got so many bags and you gave away a lot without asking me. this one i tell you first, DON'T give to others hor..
me: this bag costs close to $900, give people???
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and it goes on...

its been many months, think it happened mid last year lor. till now, she's still bringing it up that i gave away my bags without asking her first. firstly, you know who i gave to and why i gave them away?

i gave to a malay aunty who is working at my father's work place. her family is poor, they can't afford to buy new clothes, bags, etc, every now and then. she has a big family, a few grandchildren. usually clothes that i outgrown, or i rarely wear them already, i'll pass to her. of course not passing her torn clothes lah..

as for the bags, some were bought during my SECONDARY SCHOOL DAYS, some were because some parts were rusty (but aunty says she don't mind), some were really cute kind, some have a few stains or a bit yellowish which can't be removed. aunty don't mind also. she says just give her, if her grandchildren don't want, she will pass them on.

after telling her all these, then she really totally shut up. i really hope she won't bring it up again. else i'll just flare up immediately. but i really think she'll bring it up again. cos after shutting up, she 'scan' through my bags -__-"

anyway.. just feel like ranting..

so glad i keep a blog! else i'll ki siao!!!

nitez peeps...

7/30/2009 11:39:00 PM